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Thursday, November 30, 2006
Jittery.. Cold feet.. I am a mess !!!
Jittery.. I also dunno y... Too many things on my mind
Cold feet ? Coz the aircon here is so cold....
I am a mess becoz I duno where to start.. what to do .......... ( for my wedding)
Aii.. proposal and wearing the ring sounds so fun and romantic huh...preparing the registration is ok too.. not a breeze be manageable... now reality sinks in and it is the preparation of the WEDDING..
aii.. I am always so kan chiong.. register pun belum.. diet pun belum start.. hair belum cut.. dress belum buy but now thinking about wedding photos.. and the most headache--->
Aii.. until my bf also say he cannot tahan me liao..
aii. how to get married ler ?
Seems like there are alot of things to do to get married.. the dates the place.. and MONEY.. to totally disregard the norm might make the elders feel disrespected... To follow, it will seem like it is not my wedding, not my party.. Aii.. My bf is the eldest son of the eldest son... his grandparents are still around.. Hmm.. tricky tricky.
I am the eldest daughter of the eldest son.. but my grandmothers dun care liao la I think.. My mom's mom is 95 yrs old. I think she don't really remember I am her grand daughter. Except the days I brought back double-yolk mooncake for her.. :P
My dad's mom.. however .. is only too please that I am marrying a Chinese.. hehehe.. my ex bf is a Chin-dian. I think that almost killed her. :P
And as if the preparation is not headache enough.. as if the preparation is fully sponsored by someone.. I want to sign up for a make up course now...to learn how to ICI dulux my face.. hahah.. Aii. apa sming ini sedang buat ? apa yg dia mau ???? sudah siao liao...
Aii.. anyway, that day his mom was talking about babies d..ME giving birth to babies ??? I just got used to the feeling of going to be married.. now want me to be mommy ??? !!! o-<-<
Luckily she's not directly talking to me.. If she does so, I will just have a heart attack... and faint. Same old tactic.. same old trick.. as long it works I dun care.. kiu mm pa gau, jui gan yew sau !!! :P
I also duno what I am talking about here. Or what message I am trying to relay...
Yawn.. can't wait to get off work to have Nasi Lemak Antarabangsa...
There goes my diet.
I hope the fad of cute chubby brides start soons !!!
posted by sming @ 5:02 PM  
  • At 11:40 PM, Blogger nyonyapenang said…

    can use wedding planner la.

    atcherly hor, come to think of it, go thru all this once is enough to turn the face purple liao.
    but then, to be raja sehari is an undecribable feeling. :)

  • At 1:14 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Sming, happened to be in your vicinity, you not in, so I leave a message...
    Just look forward to the many happy days you'll have after all the present headaches, you'll be surprised at how time will pass you by...before long you'll have cute baby cries waking you at 3am.
    Then you'll know it was all worth it. (Right or not? NonyaPenang?) UL.
    PS: I have always believed in this....
    "Listening + communication = Understanding".

  • At 10:01 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi sming, plan it 6 months or 1 year in ahead for ur wedding. dont too kang cheong lah! that is only one in a life time mah.. plan nicely :)

  • At 12:50 PM, Blogger Las montañas said…

    sometimes, its not YOUR wedding. its a wedding for the inlaws and your family and relatives.

  • At 10:43 AM, Blogger sming said…

    Nyonya, wedding planner... hmm.. always have a perception it is expensive.. tot if i can manage i can at least "enjoy" the process. :P

    Uncle Lee, hi..ya.. thanks for the encouragement.. *hugs*

    patrick... *nod nod*. okie.. will do my best...

    LM, i cannot agree any more than what u say.. and sometimes i feel i have more pressure from other ppl than my family.. like.. did u do this ? are u going to ask for this ? how much tables is he giving you .. no.. u cannot leave from your house.. bla bla.. 0-<-<
    how i wish i can just disregard what other ppl say....

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